Category Archives: Marriage & Family Life

Fiqh of Marrage – Divorce

marriage1Dissolution of Marriage in the Shari’a
Why Should Marriages be Terminated?

In order for the institution of marriage to fulfill its goals as described earlier, divorce must be allowed in certain situations. Those religions and/or societies which deviated from this point and imposed the fiction of “till death do us part” in all cases have been responsible for untold human misery and sin. This law is not suited to human nature and Islam does not force us to apply laws which are extreme – neither celibacy, permanent marriage without the possibility of divorce, nor promiscuity and mayhem (the most popular one in our time). Continue reading Fiqh of Marrage – Divorce

How to be a good mother-in-law

10374081_10152838521643685_4560741344666519030_nWe are all familiar with the persona of the stereotypical mother-in-law — a woman generally portrayed with an intrusive and critical nature. Mothers-in-law are derided in comedy sketches, in horror stories, in books, and in real life.

A Mother-in-law, that person who is most frequently the butt of a lot of jokes. Mother-in-law, the person who is considered a meddler. Mother-in-law, the person who is considered a busybody. Mother-in-law, just saying the name conjures up all sorts of connotations! Continue reading How to be a good mother-in-law

Fiqh of Marriage – Overview

Fiqh of Marriage - OverviewMarriage in the Quran

There are a number of verses in the Quran which relate to marriage directly or indirectly. These verse can give us a basic understanding of what Allah intended for us in the area of marriage. Continue reading Fiqh of Marriage – Overview

How to Win your Wife’s Love…?

10626544_10152835607778685_4525627057516595102_nHow you can keep up your wife’s Love:

01. Make her feel secure, don’t threaten her with divorce.
02. Give sincere Salaams.
03. Treat her gently, like a fragile vessel.
04. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
05. Be generous with her.
06. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart.
07. Avoid anger, be in Wudhu at all times.
08. Look good and smell great for your wife.
09. Don’t be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken.
10. Be a good listener.
11. Yes for flattery. No for arguing.
12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, and names she loves to hear.

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Why I want to get married to you, my Future Husband.

10906484_10153035750638685_5575930869375948852_nBecause you worship Allah, please Him, glorify Him, fight for His Sake and stay firm to His Deen above all others.

Because you are a believing man whose Imaan & Akhlaq are transcendent.

Because you love your parents and grandparents so dearly for they are the ones who have been patient in bringing you up to be the man that you are predestined to be.

Because you love your siblings and your close relatives as you strive to lead them by example. Continue reading Why I want to get married to you, my Future Husband.

Marry The 7 Types Of Pearls !!!!

1610848_10152918855478685_692771279959661895_n01. The Patient : The woman who remains patient in all circumstances, and never whines, moans and complains. When some trouble or affliction hits her, she turns to Allah for help.

02. The Protector; The woman who protects her husband’s wealth & her chastity When he is away from home. When he returns , she does not burden him with the day’s problems , but listens attentively to his needs and does her best to take his tiredness away.

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Fiqh of Marriage – Wives are “Mates”

screen-shot-2014-07-27-at-4-42-22-am-770x522Women are vital to the very existence of all humans. After all, men are born from women, not the other way around. Allah the Majestic tells us in the Quran that He has created both men and women, all from a single person, Adam, peace and blessings be upon him. From Adam, Allah created his mate (Eve) and from these two Allah brought forth many men and many women. Continue reading Fiqh of Marriage – Wives are “Mates”